I wrote If These Are Men when in high school
My girlfriend and I broke up and some of my macho friends gave me advice and I said If these are men then count me out .
Quite a few versions of this song .
If these are men Lost Souls
https://youtu.be/HvDeGmXFoV8?si=g6mnJOR6z4m6lBTQ
If these are men The Choir Artifact CD
https://youtu.be/xHyia5xxTgk?si=9sw3mK_az6p-X6Fs
If these are Men The Choir Live reunion Beachland Ballroom 2018
https://youtu.be/N80JJUIl7GU?si=xl8D8OdIuLezREg0
If These Are Men Last Call Reunion At The Music Box
https://youtu.be/-_XQA_Ny8mo?si=X9W5vGOJkdhWOj40
If these are Men The Cheeks from Belgium